tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60224893435146399812024-02-18T21:08:15.763-05:00Hospice of Palm Beach County BlogHospice of Palm Beach County, founded in 1978 as a not-for-profit 501(c)(3), has cared for nearly 65,000 patients and their families and averages 1,100 patients daily throughout Palm Beach County. A leading provider of hospice care, Hospice of Palm Beach County serves as a model for other programs nationwide.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger62125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-87057778824789793712013-07-22T10:07:00.003-04:002013-07-22T10:07:47.040-04:00Sometimes, the simplest things can make all the difference . . .<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Carlos' greatest wish was to eat pork and have Cuban coffee with his family at Thanksgiving Dinner. Because of his congestive heart failure, it had been months since he was able to eat the traditional foods he loved at family meals and it was very frustrating for him. Even while caring for him in the comfort of his home, we were able to adjust his medication just enough, starting the day before Thanksgiving, on Thanksgiving Day and the following day. Carlos enjoyed his meal without consequences to his comfort or health, and it meant the world to him.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-43533163251429445222013-07-22T10:03:00.001-04:002013-07-22T10:03:10.697-04:00When spiritual support means so much . . .<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Throughout their 57 years of marriage, Ralph would put on music every night at 10:00 and dance with his wife Madolyn. Eventually, at age 86 with advanced cancer, there came a time when Ralph was too weak to dance or leave their home. One of the things they really missed being able to do together was attending synagogue. So, one of our ordained rabbis began visiting them at home. "Ralph loved it when the rabbi came over. We sang songs from the services and said prayers together. It brought both of us so much comfort to share these moments and to be able to talk with him," Madolyn said.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-3171107981018047492013-07-19T13:58:00.000-04:002013-07-19T13:58:08.613-04:00Every day is a gift<b><i>Hospice is about living...</i></b> We are here to give you comfort and help you live each day as fully as possible when you or someone you love had a life-threatening illness. Our care is based on the belief that every life has meaning and every moment of every day is a gift. As we ease pain and symptoms, and provide the emotional and spiritual comfort your family needs, you can focus more on each other and each precious day you have together.<br />
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If you've ever had the chance to experience hospice care, you may have seen our philosophy in action. <a href="http://hpbc.com/about/gonzalez.shtml" target="_blank">Dr. Faustino Gonzalez, MD, FACP, FAAHPM</a>, Vice President of Medical Affairs, says it best. <b>"When we first meet with our patients and families, we ask them, 'What are your hopes? What would make you happy?' We are honored to hear their stories and support them every way we can. We're here to help people live the way they want to and do the things that are important to them."</b> In fact, it was this quote that inspired us to share a few of the meaningful stories we so often hear from the families in our care, through News to Friends.<br />
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We make sure that every person in our care feels protected and supported. We understand what families are going through and give them whatever tools and support they need to meet their goals for living.<br />
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<b>"When a cure is no longer likely, there is so much we can do to help people feel better," explained Dr. Gonzalez in a recent interview. "We are here to meet their needs. We are here to help them live. That is exactly what hospice is all about."</b><br />
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<br />Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-13966462209142546402013-04-02T10:33:00.003-04:002013-04-02T10:34:24.705-04:00My Final Journey<b><i>This beautiful letter was written by one of our patients, Fred, to his hospice physician:</i></b><br />
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When people are asked "how would you prefer to die?" they almost always say "by passing away in my sleep." Once, that was also my response.<br />
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I now see and live life quite differently. I have learned, post my diagnosis, you must experience the final journey to truly appreciate it.<br />
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The final journey I am referring to provided me, and maybe you, the ability to feel, to do, to observe, to cry and to wonder. To be held or very simply touched. Questions were asked without reservations while answers simply seemed to flow my way. It really was a wonderful experience.<br />
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I was looked at ~ positively; I was listened to ~ intently; I was hugged ~ with meaning; I was helped ~ continuously and, yes, ~ it all felt so very good. Some friends reached out while others stayed overly reserved. Everyone seemed to find or at least blend into their own comfort zone.<br />
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In her famous book <i>On Death and Dying</i>, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross identified five distinct stages (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance) a person normally follows in their final journey.<br />
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It became clear to scholars those very same stages identified for a dying person also applied directly for the loved ones and friends of those who were actually dying.<br />
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I truly enjoyed, yes enjoyed, my journey. The time it took me to do some processing also provided the quality time my family, friends and acquaintances may have needed to do their own searching. Time I believe well spent.<br />
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My journey has finally ended. Although yours may be far off and nowhere in sight, it still looms to surface surely some day.<br />
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May your final journey follow smoothly in the footsteps you helped mold for me. You have truly assisted in blending various segments of mine into a wonderful experience I now cherish and so dearly appreciate.<br />
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Remain well and we shall meet again.<br />
<i>Fred</i>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-35310278796008220652013-03-04T14:08:00.003-05:002013-03-04T14:35:53.912-05:00Corporate Partner Profile - Wally Findlay Galleries<div style="font-family: Helvetica;">
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With galleries in New York, Barcelona and Palm Beach, James R. Borynack is renowned throughout the art world as the Chairman and CEO of the distinguished Wally Findlay Galleries International. Along with his lifelong interest in fine art, Jimmy developed another passion as a young man after a life-changing experience.<br />
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In the mid-1970s, Jimmy’s mother was diagnosed with a terminal illness. She was such a vibrant and active woman leading up to the diagnosis that her seven adult children and her husband struggled to comprehend what was happening. Finally, hospice was called in. “They met with us and took the time to educate us on the end of life,” Jimmy explained. “It was an amazing experience to transition from confusion to acceptance, focusing on our time together. Everything became so much easier for all of us.”<br />
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To help others receive this invaluable support, Jimmy has dedicated himself to raising awareness of the benefits of <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">hospice care</a>. At the national level, he became chairman of the board of the National Hospice Foundation and chaired their National Board of Governors. Locally, Wally Findlay Galleries Palm Beach has been raising funds to <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">support Hospice of Palm Beach County</a> since 1997. “We continue to support Hospice of Palm Beach County each year because it is a necessity that touches everyone,” Jimmy added.<br />
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In addition to their <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/page.aspx?pid=387#.UTT2RaXhFQM" target="_blank">Corporate Partnership</a>, the Palm Beach gallery generously hosts the Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation Chairman’s Reception each year. Announcing a new fund-raising event, Jimmy shared, “We are excited to be hosting <i><a href="https://www.hpbcf.org/celebrity_masque_art#.UTT2e6XhFQM" target="_blank">Masque Celebrity Art</a></i> at the gallery on March 9th, 2013. It will be an evening of fun as we auction off masks decorated by Celebrities, Philanthropists and Captains of Industry.” Jimmy added, “We do whatever we can to support Hospice of Palm Beach County as they care for all of us.<br />
They’re our saving grace at the end of life.”<br />
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To learn more about <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/page.aspx?pid=387#.UTT2RaXhFQM" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation’s Corporate Partnership Program</a> and other corporate giving programs that support Hospice of Palm Beach County, please contact <b>Carrie Browne</b> at <b>561.494.6882</b>. For information on upcoming Foundation events, please contact <b>Lauryn Barry</b> at <b>561.494.6884</b>.</div>
Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-90172249519399163362013-01-07T10:09:00.000-05:002013-01-07T10:14:59.236-05:00Every day is a gift<br />
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<b><i>Hospice is about living…</i></b> We are here to give you comfort and help you live each day as fully as possible when you or someone you love has a life-threatening illness. Our care is based on the belief that every life has meaning and every moment of every day is a gift. As <a href="http://hpbc.com/patients-families/" target="_blank">we ease pain and symptoms</a>, and provide the emotional and spiritual comfort your family needs, you can focus more on each other and each precious day you have together.<br />
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If you’ve ever had the chance to experience <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">hospice care</a>, you may have seen our philosophy inaction. <a href="http://hpbc.com/about/gonzalez.shtml" target="_blank">Dr. Faustino Gonzalez, MD, FACP, FAAHPM, Vice President of Medical Affairs</a>, says it best. <b>“When we first meet with our patients and families, we ask them, ‘What are your hopes? What would make you happy?’ We are honored to hear their stories and support them every way we can. We’re here to help people live the way they want to and do the things that are important to them.”</b> In fact, it was this quote that inspired us to share a few of the meaningful stories we so often hear from the families in our care, through <a href="http://hpbc.com/media-room/index.shtml" target="_blank">News to Friends</a>.<br />
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We make sure that every person in our care feels protected and supported. We understand what families are going through and give them whatever tools and support they need to meet their goals for living.<br />
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<b>“When a cure is no longer likely, there is so much we can do to help people feel better,” explained Dr. Gonzalez in a recent interview. “We are here to meet their needs.We are here to help them live. That is exactly what hospice s all about.”</b>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-28642951031402309392012-12-19T13:37:00.001-05:002012-12-19T13:43:09.841-05:00Volunteers<b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">Meet Ruby Collins … Volunteer since 2003</span></i></b><br />
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Nine years ago, Hospice of Palm Beach County helped Ruby Collins care for her husband, Charlie, in their home.
“It was hospice care the way you hope it would be,” said Ruby. The experience was so meaningful to Ruby that she
has been a <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/volunteer" target="_blank">volunteer</a> with us ever since! “Hospice relieved so much of the burden from our shoulders and gave us
more personal time together,” she explained. “They bathed and exercised Charlie, who had become completely
immobile. And <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/music-therapy.shtml" target="_blank">music therapy</a> became his greatest pleasure.” After Charlie’s death, our <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">grief support services</a>
helped Ruby come to terms with her loss and everything she’d been through in those four difficult months.
Now, Ruby volunteers her time at <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">fund-raising events that support our patient care and grief support programs</a>. Wanting to help others receive the care that her family did, Ruby has been a tireless <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/volunteer" target="_blank">volunteer</a>,
helping out in our offices, at <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">Foundation events</a> and making “Caring Calls” to family members to offer
condolences and information on our <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">bereavement services</a>.<br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><b>Thank you, Ruby! You touch the lives of countless people and make it possible for us to care for everyone who needs us!</b> </span><br />
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<i><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: 18px;"><b>You can help families when they need it most!</b> </span></i><br />
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Are you looking for a meaningful volunteer experience? Here are some of the many ways that you can help.<br />
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<li><b>Patient Visitors -</b> Personal visits are a gift of compassion and kindness that mean the world to our patients and families. </li>
<li><b>Special Events -</b> Our volunteers help Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation at their fund-raising events that help us care for the people in our community. </li>
<li><b>Resale Shops -</b> Helping out at our upscale resale shops are a great way to get involved
If you have a few hours per month and you would like to make a difference please call us at 561.227.5138.</li>
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Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-41068542484057447572012-11-07T15:40:00.003-05:002012-11-07T15:47:12.819-05:00Finding Comfort in Care<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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When Maria Gonzalez moved to the U.S. twenty-two years ago, she was reaching for dreams she has since achieved, dreams of becoming a citizen and raising a family here. The hardest part of moving here was leaving her parents in Colombia.<br />
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Over the years, they visited one another as often as they could afford to, but Maria longed to be with her mother, Carmen. Carmen was a homemaker who raised five children in a small town near Cali, Colombia. She loved tropical music, dancing, cooking and being in nature.<br />
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When Carmen came to visit in April 2012, Maria noticed that her mother seemed exhausted. Carmen assured her that she was fine, she was just tired and had a sore back. She was happy to be here to rest, relax and to spend time with Maria and the grandchildren she missed so much.<br />
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In the car one day, Carmen began to cry, telling Maria she was in great pain and wanted to return to the house. Maria insisted on taking her to the emergency room at JFK Medical Center, where an MRI was performed, detecting a stage four, inoperable tumor in her lower back. Carmen was admitted to the oncology floor right away.<br />
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Explaining the shocking news that Carmen's cancer was too advanced for treatment and she may have as little as a week to live, the oncology staff suggested that Maria admit her mother to the care of <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a>. "I had no idea what hospice was. We were in shock. It was all happening so fast," said Maria.<br />
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A <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/spiritual-care.shtml" target="_blank">Hospice chaplain</a> and nurse met with Maria and Carmen. "Right away, they were so kind to my mother, offering her some warm soup, making her comfortable," shared Maria. "They explained what hospice care is and that it is a <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/medicare-insurance.shtml" target="_blank">benefit under Medicare and insurance</a>, but my mother didn’t fall into any of those categories. I told them that we had no medical insurance, money or resources to pay for her care," she continued. "They told me not to worry, that my mother would not have to move from there - that <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">they would take care of her</a> and she would have everything she needed." Carmen was cared for in the <a href="http://hpbc.com/about/units-offices.shtml" target="_blank">Jay Robert Lauer Hospice and Palliative Care Center</a> located right there in the hospital.<br />
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"Everyone cared for my mother with such gentleness, compassion and respect," Maria explained. "When the <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/music-therapy.shtml" target="_blank">Music Therapist</a> came I was holding my mother’s hand. As she sang songs in Spanish and English, my mother responded. It was a meaningful and wonderful experience."<br />
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Carmen was 68 when she passed, and had been in our care for two weeks. "We were not prepared emotionally for a funeral and we did not know what to do," Maria continued. "Again, Hospice told us not to worry and <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">they would take care of us</a>." We arranged for a local priest to hold mass right at the hospital, and it was a touching experience for the whole family.<br />
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"It was a gift from God to have all of this. It is a gift to have peace in our sorrow. We are so grateful to <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a>. We are so grateful to everyone," Maria concluded.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-44138327716399323582012-10-18T16:11:00.003-04:002012-10-18T16:16:49.545-04:00Where do your donations go?When you make a donation to <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation</a>, your generosity offers comfort and assurance to families who are facing the end of life. The funds and <a href="http://hpbcf.org/resale" target="_blank">resale store</a> goods you donate are used to fill the significant gap between what is covered by Medicare, Medicaid and private insurance, so that each patient and family can have the highest possible quality of life. With more than 1,000 families in our care each day, your support has a <b><i>profound</i></b> effect on so many lives in our community.<br />
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In addition to funding our extensive <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">Grief Support</a> and <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/music-therapy.shtml" target="_blank">Music Therapy programs</a>, it is your support that directly provides our patients the non-reimbursed treatments and medications that are crucial to their comfort, and offers hospice care for families without insurance or the ability to pay.<br />
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Carl, a middle-aged man with metastasized cancer, wants to go on hospice care at home. He wants to get relief from his symptoms, spend his remaining time at home with his wife and children and make sure they get the emotional and <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">grief support</a> they need. To relieve the intense pain caused by the size of his tumor, he needs to continue radiation treatments. Yet, they are not covered under his insurance policy's hospice benefit. Thanks to our donors, we are able to admit him and patients like him who need complex treatments for comfort, such as radiation, chemotherapy, transfusions and IV medications. Many hospices, without our <a href="http://hpbc.com/healthcare-partners/open-access.shtml" target="_blank">"open access"</a> approach to care, simply would not admit Carl.<br />
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The Robinsons, a family with no medical insurance or resources, needs our care for their 12-year-old child who has cancer. Thanks to our donors, we are able to provide charitable care for this family, offering expert medical care and comfort for their son and the emotional and <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/spiritual-care.shtml" target="_blank">spiritual support</a> their whole family needs.<br />
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Miriam, an elderly woman in an independent living facility, has developed difficulty breathing. Each and every hour it makes her uncomfortable, interrupts her sleep and causes her great emotional distress. She needs treatments to ease her breathing, but the medications are not covered under her hospice diagnosis. Your donations are used to provide these medications, giving her welcome relief.<br />
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Sharon is grieving the loss of her husband, who recently died from Alzheimer's. After 50 years of marriage and 10 years of caregiving, Sharon feels lost. Miles away from her adult children, she struggles with managing the intensity of her emotions, getting adequate sleep, and finding the hope that life can one day be good again. Your donations help to provide <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">bereavement counseling</a> for people like Sharon so that they can better cope with the challenges of losing a loved one.<br />
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These are just four stories of the thousands each year, as families are cared fro by Hospice of Palm Beach County. "As a not-for-profit hospice, our philosophy is simple to do whatever it takes to offer <b><i>everyone</i></b> in our community the comfort, compassion and dignity they need during their final months. Thanks to your support, we can make that possible," explained Greg Leach, president of Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation. "We are so very grateful for our donors and the many good people who support our events and <a href="http://hpbcf.org/resale" target="_blank">resale shops</a>. Your generosity means so much for families at their time of greatest need."<br />
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THE IMPACT OF YOUR DONATIONS...<br />
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<li>For <b>$15</b> per day, we can provide <b>medication for one patient.</b></li>
<li>For <b>$155</b> per day, we can provide <b>end-of-life care to one indigent patient.</b></li>
<li>For <b>$175</b> we can provide <b>in-home assistance for one 8-hour day for one caregiver.</b></li>
<li>For <b>$250</b> we can buy a <b>guitar for one of our music therapists.</b></li>
<li>For <b>$300</b> per day, we can provide <b>one day of palliative chemotherapy for a patient.</b></li>
<li>For <b>$375</b> we can send <b>one grieving child to Camp SeaStar.</b></li>
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When Valencia Campbell was twenty years old, she and her husband, Cornel, had a beautiful baby boy named Jonathan. Life was full and happy for the young couple as they were working, going to college and raising their son. When he was just six months old, Valencia discovered that she was pregnant again, this time with a little girl.<br />
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There was something very special about Kayla. No one in the Campbells’ large, extended family or circle of friends had known a baby quite like her. She seemed intently aware of people, paying close attention to them and engaging them. “She was like a little princess who attracted everyone around her, and they responded to her with so much love,” said Valencia.<br />
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Yet, life was about to take a tragic turn for the Campbells. When she was just three months old, Kayla died very suddenly from a traumatic medical event. As one might expect, her death was a devastating shock to the family and very difficult for them to accept. Bereft members of the family reacted differently – some withdrew, others cried continuously, and still others functioned in a haze of grief.<br />
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In the midst of gathering her bearings, Valencia had decisions to make. Her semester at Palm Beach State College was about to begin. Now one month after her daughter’s death, Valencia had become extremely anxious and depressed, rarely leaving the house. She made the decision to continue with her education as planned, hoping that focusing on something outside of her pain would help break the downward spiral of depression and anxiety she was experiencing.<br />
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At school, she attended a class on grief, hoping that it would offer some relief. Someone attending that class recommended that she contact <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a> for <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">professional bereavement counseling</a>. She called that day, and it was a call that would change her life.<br />
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“If it were not for <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County’s bereavement program</a>, I don’t know if I’d be here today,” confided Valencia. “I felt like I was drowning in the sadness. I just couldn’t accept that my baby wasn’t coming back.” Working with a bereavement counselor, Valencia learned to cope with her stress and depression. She gradually learned to accept Kayla’s death and found ways to deal with it. She also came to understand that everyone deals with grief differently, which helped her family’s healing process.<br />
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“Now I know that Kayla is part of me - and that comfort will never go away. Feelings of loss come and go, but I have healthy ways of coping with them,” Valencia continued. “I hope that everyone who is struggling with the loss of a loved one will reach out for the help available at Hospice of Palm Beach County. It can make such a difference if you allow them to help you. I am not unique. If I can do it, anyone can.”<br />
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Today, Valencia feels like a blessed person. In appreciation of the support of Hospice of Palm Beach County, her professors, family and friends, she set the goal of becoming a social worker to help others. Now, two years after Kayla’s death, she will complete her bachelor’s degree at FAU in 2012 and immediately pursue a Master’s in Social Work. She plans to get her doctorate. “I could never repay everyone who has helped me. Their efforts have shaped my determination and success today. No matter what, I promised myself I would never give up,” added Valencia.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-88233589751983562452012-06-15T12:51:00.006-04:002012-06-15T14:38:44.342-04:00Happy Father's Day, Dad<i>This special Father’s Day letter was written by one of the family members in our care. She asked that we share it with you. </i><br />
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It will be my second year without you being here. I miss you so much. On Father’s Day I loved to bring you little goodies, buy nice shirts and new clothing to dress you up, and bring you the food you loved from Morgan’s and Dunkin Donuts, too. How time goes by.<br />
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I’m so glad that I brought <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a> in to tend to your care. It was the best decision that you and I made together. Hospice not only cared for you during your time of crisis, they also helped me with my grief after you were gone. This helped me so much with all of my losses – you, Mom and my child.<br />
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Hospice helped to make your last weeks so peaceful. I’m so glad we got to speak to one another before your condition worsened. I will never forget when we were looking at the old family photos hanging in your room and you told me Mommy was coming for you. I’m so grateful that we had our private moment together when you told me how much you loved me and thanked me for everything I had done for you. Then you passed on, but not before telling me these wonderful things.<br />
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I miss you and love you very much.<br />
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Your loving daughter,
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Debra Kaisen-Kasdon KingHospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-83787073924013847012012-06-13T16:03:00.004-04:002012-06-13T16:09:36.724-04:00Helping Children Heal<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Loss affects children of every age differently. While the loss of a loved one has a powerful impact on the psyche, they have distinctly child-like abilities to understand and express it, such as the need to show grief through play rather than words. Through counseling, Hospice of Palm Beach County's <b><a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">John J. Brogan Bereavement Center</a> </b>helps young children and teenagers understand their feelings of loss, find healthy ways of coping and rebuild their view of the world.<br />
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As it is with adults, it is important for children to connect with peers who can understand their life experiences. Every March, the school-aged children in our care are invited to attend Camp SeaStar, a fun-filled, 3-day weekend of friendship and healing. Funded by <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation</a>, the camp is free-of-charge for every child who attends. In the pristine Everglades, campers share their stories as they participate in adventure camping activities, music, art, and games.<br />
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"With a safe environment and such a powerful common bond, friendships form quickly," shares Chelsea Johnson, Hospice of Palm Beach County Supportive Care Manager. "The campers learn new ways to cope with change, and most of all, they discover how to share their grief with each other in a way that is such an honor to witness."<br />
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At the very beginning of camp, the children set personal goals such as wisdom or strength. Choosing animals that symbolize those traits, they create "totem necklaces" that they wear throughout the weekend.<br />
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The groups tackle adventure-based challenges, working together to achieve their own personal goals. "As each child steps outside of their comfort zone, they rely on newfound friends for mutual support. The feelings of accomplishment and confidence help the kids to progress amazingly well once they return home," adds Johnson.<br />
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One of the most poignant activities is "Lanterns of Love." While they decorate lanterns based on their memories and experience of their loved ones, the children share those stories with their friends and counselors. Saturday evening, the lanterns are hung in the trees on an island, where the campers can bond over a campfire, music and stories.<br />
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Around the campfire, counselors share a story about Lanterns of Love and everyone joins in a song written by a <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/music-therapy.shtml" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County music therapist</a>. As they walk back to their cabins, campers can see the light in their lanterns twinkling back at them. "The kids put a lot of feeling into creating something that reflects their loved ones," explains Johnson. "It's comforting for them to know that they can still bask in their love and stay connected. It is such a beautiful expression of the healing process."<br />
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And, as if to watch over them, the lanterns shine all through the night. Once can see them across the lake from the cabins where the campers are fast asleep.<br />
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Thanks to the generosity of our donors, the John J. Brogan bereavement Center offers group support to everyone in Palm Beach County who has lost a loved one, at no charge. To learn more about Hospice of Palm Beach County's grief support services, please call us at 561.227.5175.<br />
<br />Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-6728687147911540582012-05-31T09:43:00.003-04:002012-05-31T09:51:58.010-04:00Being a Hospice Volunteer Is Like "Winning the Lottery"<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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For Susan Fagan, being a <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/volunteer" target="_blank">volunteer for Hospice of Palm Beach County</a>, means being prepared for anything, even three-hour trips to Publix Supermarkets. Susan, 62, became a patient visitor in August 2007, and one of her most memorable assignments was helping the wife of a patient run her errands. As the primary caregiver, the wife needed a reprieve to focus on something other than her husband's care. This often meant weekly, extended visits to Publix, where the wife and Susan would travel down each aisle, closely inspecting produce, evaluating meats and comparing prices.<br />
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"I came to know the folks in the deli, produce and meats sections really well," said Susan with a laugh. "She was a sweet lady. She loved the outings because she could relax and release some of the pressures she endured from her daily responsibilities at home."<br />
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A listening ear, a calm manner, a sense of humor, and an interest in others are the qualifying characteristics of a good <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/volunteer" target="_blank">Hospice volunteer</a>, according to Susan. No matter how the patients' situations or needs may differ, the volunteer should always demonstrate caring, warmth and respect.<br />
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Susan did this by noticing one patient's love of music and taking her down to her nursing home's dining area, so she could listen to visiting performers. When the patient could no longer be moved, Susan sang to her herself, even on her last day of life. Other times, as with one patient who is suffering from dementia, she sits, makes small talk and smiles.<br />
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"She doesn’t talk much, so there is a lot of smiling at each other," Susan said.<br />
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Susan's first experience with hospice care was with her mother, who needed the services in New York. After her mother passed, Susan decided to call <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a> and find out about volunteering.<br />
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An average day could mean having cake with a 91-year-old birthday boy and making him laugh with the promise of 'dancing ladies,' or taking a patient out for coffee. But most of the time, it means paying attention. Patients in nursing homes often feel forgotten or ignored, so a little conversation goes a long way. Susan says the goodwill flows both ways.<br />
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"When I say it’s been my pleasure as I leave them, I mean it," she said. "I go in with the outlook that I made an improvement in their day. One gentleman said to me, 'you made my day,' and it was like winning the lottery to me. You make a difference."<br />
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To learn more about Hospice of Palm Beach County's volunteer program, visit <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/">www.hpbc.com</a> or call (561) 227-5138.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-25382965896506143442012-04-12T10:44:00.001-04:002012-04-12T10:58:44.054-04:00To be a kid again: Hospice Bereavement Program<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiT-ctzGiJ2rGnACK2xBghIgMMoRyOY3-k5z_qxuNSGtuRfdpkyLOM80WIm8VCMTH4u1agmO3HH0UndKzO5jgEV2QOhD_r5Dh-aiXwSg15qlKNcwmI-fHFt9fIxbiClkHnkjsYMBOrnBYU/s1600/DSC_0109-resized-web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiT-ctzGiJ2rGnACK2xBghIgMMoRyOY3-k5z_qxuNSGtuRfdpkyLOM80WIm8VCMTH4u1agmO3HH0UndKzO5jgEV2QOhD_r5Dh-aiXwSg15qlKNcwmI-fHFt9fIxbiClkHnkjsYMBOrnBYU/s1600/DSC_0109-resized-web.jpg" /></a>More than 45 children and teens from Palm Beach County gathered recently for a weekend of sharing stories and paying tribute to those they have loved and lost. <a href="http://hpbc.com/spotlight/camp-seastar.shtml" target="_blank">Camp SeaStar</a>, held annually at the Everglades Youth Conservation Camp in the J.W. Corbett Wildlife Center, is an adventure-based bereavement program facilitated by Hospice of Palm Beach County (HPBC).<br />
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The weekend retreat welcomes South Florida children ages 5 to 18 who have experienced a loss and received <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/bereavement-center.shtml" target="_blank">bereavement support</a> through Hospice of Palm Beach County. The camp allows time for sharing, support, celebration and fun, offering children a secure space and environment where they can meet other children like themselves who have lost a loved one and help them recognize that they are not alone in their feelings of grief. Camp SeaStar is provided at no charge, due to donors support.<br />
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"There's a tremendous curative factor in this group modality, in the sheer numbers. It really helps," said Hospice of Palm Beach County's Senior Director of Clinical Services, Regina Di Pietro.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKB9RFCp5eyBraUD9ttcHNh_bjr-aH3c9knZ-COUn2ul8o7cJ3POAQ-pdE0yo_ImeF8p5y_KfHBd7r-H8WC4xA1DhVhWKsp-hHBtR7-ZcEAA23Qc5-egmIljjRQdBHCigQRmU1gb6MMqU/s1600/DSC_0118-resized-web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKB9RFCp5eyBraUD9ttcHNh_bjr-aH3c9knZ-COUn2ul8o7cJ3POAQ-pdE0yo_ImeF8p5y_KfHBd7r-H8WC4xA1DhVhWKsp-hHBtR7-ZcEAA23Qc5-egmIljjRQdBHCigQRmU1gb6MMqU/s1600/DSC_0118-resized-web.jpg" /></a>Due to HPBC's recent expansion into <a href="http://www.hospiceofbrowardcounty.org/" target="_blank">Broward County</a>, the camp will also be offered to Broward children this July.<br />
While it may look like a traditional camp with children fishing, canoeing and toasting s'mores over a bonfire, every activity at Camp SeaStar has been designed with a specific purpose and cumulative effect towards the children's healing process.<br />
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"The counselors who created this program are highly skilled at integrating counseling support into the activities so that the process is virtually seamless to the children," said Di Pietro.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsk81H492Iby5SDQ62jgsjR5oK9KQyKKej2Qbz1mXRdTLxnCdgjXXTi9goTVe_nHzg7ElaFSv7BVTSxkWAiUkxxJYb3nIxBNkXt20bYGqKqij5TcaaVgnTw3ZVw-Vu6N7472WJpO93wAs/s1600/DSC_0261-resized-web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjsk81H492Iby5SDQ62jgsjR5oK9KQyKKej2Qbz1mXRdTLxnCdgjXXTi9goTVe_nHzg7ElaFSv7BVTSxkWAiUkxxJYb3nIxBNkXt20bYGqKqij5TcaaVgnTw3ZVw-Vu6N7472WJpO93wAs/s1600/DSC_0261-resized-web.jpg" /></a>Upon arrival, campers are asked to pick an animal that represents traits or goals that they hope to work on during the weekend.<br />
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"I drew a moose and a bear," said 10-year-old Brooke Dixon. "The moose is for confidence and the bear is for strength in myself."<br />
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Three years ago, Brooke's mother died suddenly of a heart attack and Brooke came to this year's Camp SeaStar to again face her grief, but this time, a support system embraced her.<br />
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"I've made so many friends here," said the fourth grader about her favorite camp memories. "All the other kids here lost someone, too. It makes me realize I'm not alone."<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHtUw_0aIv72rWocORgPa9xHtoxlZ1z5gdt5vlnIh3Xvq7Duh7c-xCrPPK2itDlYqFPl4DDmognALOnamYhA8V9N9B8AHRjwooz5ewyHSN3R8VVTAzdeipIs2IZ7jtmeqjjtLTGJ0ECmM/s1600/DSC_0127-resized-web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHtUw_0aIv72rWocORgPa9xHtoxlZ1z5gdt5vlnIh3Xvq7Duh7c-xCrPPK2itDlYqFPl4DDmognALOnamYhA8V9N9B8AHRjwooz5ewyHSN3R8VVTAzdeipIs2IZ7jtmeqjjtLTGJ0ECmM/s1600/DSC_0127-resized-web.jpg" /></a>For more information about Camp SeaStar and Broward Camp SeaStar, contact Supportive Care Manager, Chelsea Johnson at 561-227-5178 or email <a href="mailto:cjohnson@hpbc.com">cjohnson@hpbc.com</a>.<br />
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Since 1978, HPBC has cared for nearly 70,000 patients nearing their end of life. As a nonprofit organization, they care for all who want and qualify for services, regardless of ability to pay. HPBC's multi-cultural staff respects all religions and cultural traditions.<br />
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For more information, visit <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/">www.hpbc.com</a>.<br />
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Palm Beach Edition<br />
April 11, 2012Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-34291088432841978812012-03-13T11:19:00.003-04:002012-03-13T11:31:27.362-04:00What Being a Hospice Nurse means To Me<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXhMc-MgmYaUABDOkGWEyoncxpLhbBLy4d-Lw77kRZfS3f3bf8epQsGSgIjajWLAdyUtI0r-nadzwzTTcwkjdZYTenLRyk60Mt6AkODKE4DpcNZWZ2n954hCsk9C6g64uMQuhLEyV5NTA/s1600/Lester+Bavegehims.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXhMc-MgmYaUABDOkGWEyoncxpLhbBLy4d-Lw77kRZfS3f3bf8epQsGSgIjajWLAdyUtI0r-nadzwzTTcwkjdZYTenLRyk60Mt6AkODKE4DpcNZWZ2n954hCsk9C6g64uMQuhLEyV5NTA/s1600/Lester+Bavegehims.jpg" /></a></div>As a nurse I have worked in critical care, mental health, long term, medical surgery, school nursing and case management, but none has been as rewarding as my current position with <a href="http://www.hpbc.com">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a>. As a Hospice nurse, I am charged with caring for patients at their end-of-life. I am able to watch the peaceful process of dying and able to console a grieving family.<div><br />To me, there are two important events in a person’s life, their birth and their death. As a rule when we are born there is someone other than our mother to bear witness and support our grand entrance into this world. On the other hand, many people might not have any significant others to bear witness to the second most important event in their life, their death.</div><div><br />Consequently I cannot think of a more important reason to be a <a href="http://hpbc.com/about/hospice-team.shtml">Hospice nurse</a>, than having the privilege of bearing witness to the peaceful dying process of a fellow human being and their grieving family. No other person does what a Hospice nurse does for the dying patient. And always, my feelings are the same, the mixed feeling of gratitude and awe to bear witness to the second most important event in a person’s life.</div><div><br />~ <em>Lester Bavegehims is the Continuous Care Manager, Hospice of Palm Beach County</em></div>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-49030392073218752072012-03-02T13:08:00.008-05:002012-03-02T13:34:12.863-05:00A Caregiver Story - Steve Macht<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgR0HWBuDW6OBq0xnBYVYYE6B_h6hjYzTYi4-CiRL31_xqUvQZTLRlsRraWxiuMrnHVkPIovnzZ4uI4DOFzwY5QvVjxSSnzhW87l_HQR8GgTo1RofyeC5PNLJNlVuXPVnlHG1x6H89Jj8I/s1600/macht2.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 235px; height: 255px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgR0HWBuDW6OBq0xnBYVYYE6B_h6hjYzTYi4-CiRL31_xqUvQZTLRlsRraWxiuMrnHVkPIovnzZ4uI4DOFzwY5QvVjxSSnzhW87l_HQR8GgTo1RofyeC5PNLJNlVuXPVnlHG1x6H89Jj8I/s320/macht2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5715369314782281154" /></a><p>Dotte Macht was a devoted wife and mother, and golf champion. A single digit handicap golfer, she achieved several club championships and three holes-in-one. Dotte was an independent, feisty, no-frills woman who loved her family, sports and giving back to her community.</p><p>Having raised their family in Coral Gables, Dotte and Bob Macht moved to the Northern Palm Beaches when Bob retired in the late 1980’s. They remained very close with their children who were then living in other states - speaking every day, visiting often and vacationing together.</p><p><br /></p><p>Their close family was dealt a tragic blow when Bob died from a sudden cardiovascular event. After forty-nine years of marriage, the trauma of losing her husband and best friend was a setback that Dotte never truly recovered from. It marked the beginning of he</p><p>r journey into Alzheimer’s disease. Over time, this stoic family matriarch became disoriented, which distressed her. Her children took turns caring for Dotte in Florida and eventually got her to accept having full-time nursing care in her home as her needs increased.</p><p><br /></p><p>A few years after her husband’s death, Dotte had a series of strokes, which dramatically accelerated her descent into Alzheimer’s. This prompted her son, Steve, to move into her home so he could supervise her care. Fortunately, as a business consultant, he had the freedom to transfer his business operations to Florida.</p> <p><br /></p><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 168px; height: 244px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKpw65Q71VWWhIbMBh5DGZSarD0LLfdI-in2NKueZckA0svHOxZ05glT95r7ZmQ9CGuRaZs35wwwPGHSy-Ql5F8ebc4rthh4BPoNMSrdDFtb63DpruHneMVtTATn7XBCvHYcdVOXHM1-U/s320/macht3.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5715369502437202274" /><p>As Dotte became increasingly dependent, Steve became less comfortable leaving her for more than an hour or two at a time. He eventually began to feel the effects of stress on his own health as he struggled to manage her care in addition to his own business interests.</p> <p><br /></p><p>When she was hospitalized after a stroke, Dotte’s neurologist recommended that the family call <b><a href="http://www.hpbc.com/">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a></b>. He assured them that Hospice would offer excellent care right in her own home, where she would be the most comfortable. ”I thought hospice was only called in for the last few days of life. I had no idea that they could help us. Boy, was I wrong!” Steve remarked.</p> <p><br /></p><p>“We all felt such a sense of ease as soon as we were in Hospice’s care. We had a team of medical experts who were always there for us,”Steve added. Hospice was constantly assessing any changes and responding to them so Steve no longer had to worry about anything falling through the cracks that could impact Dotte’s health. “We felt totally confident that she was receiving the best possible care. I cannot express the relief that brought to all of us,” continued Steve.</p> <p><br /></p><p>“Suddenly, there was this guardian of care around my mother. They took care of all of us. Every person on Mom’s Hospice team was professional, compassionate and truly cared about her as a person.” added Steve. “Their care was so gentle, respectful - almost reverent. This loving care enabled her to regain her dignity, which was incredibly important to her.”</p><p><br /></p><p>Before Hospice entered her life, Dotte was shutting down. It was Hospice that gave her the encouragement to go forward. “Hospice helped Mom expand her horizons and keep going. They gave her the sense that each day of her life was worthwhile and wonderful. This restored her hope and brought her a wonderful sense of peace,” Steve added.</p> <p><br /></p><p>“It was an extraordinary experience to see my mother relax, let go and enjoy the last months of her life. Thanks to Hospice, they were filled with peace and joy,” Steve concluded. </p>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-28014630670260139432012-02-02T13:19:00.009-05:002012-02-02T13:47:54.036-05:00A Caregiving Story - Martha Varela<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5k2cqNZcOXKcvlnmQeaa2qdZeSTB0dqJGb44qq-hLhllYFivhqFKfTwUvTdIhI5dl-P1uRXHOiFF-_JqC11egBTc0MVBCKBzLjuEY_Q6UnYqmkXi9-KfMk8U_uXyLUwTNpVgpzATmff8/s1600/nina.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 149px; height: 157px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5k2cqNZcOXKcvlnmQeaa2qdZeSTB0dqJGb44qq-hLhllYFivhqFKfTwUvTdIhI5dl-P1uRXHOiFF-_JqC11egBTc0MVBCKBzLjuEY_Q6UnYqmkXi9-KfMk8U_uXyLUwTNpVgpzATmff8/s320/nina.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704611185723212770" /></a>Nina Varela emigrated to the U.S. from Cuba with her husband in the 1950’s. In 1968, she moved to Miami Beach as a single mother raising two daughters, Doreen and Martha. Nina was a devoted mother who supported her family by cleaning buildings, which she later went on to manage. After going to night school, she got a job assisting the elderly in subsidized housing, a job she continued to do until she retired.<div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlnAJ6KV86L_69ZjIrLJfO1CsrWA63-LLPU498ncIVeRCjDxnBMgTkL-PQlQbxW0Oi8SQ1La9Y1q8bKTvaNqyYNmwHY7MPRXvhm5eTRoZl3auaS-s1rLP62gJdBvGoAUMRPvBgc7oTw2E/s1600/martha.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:right; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 110px; height: 147px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlnAJ6KV86L_69ZjIrLJfO1CsrWA63-LLPU498ncIVeRCjDxnBMgTkL-PQlQbxW0Oi8SQ1La9Y1q8bKTvaNqyYNmwHY7MPRXvhm5eTRoZl3auaS-s1rLP62gJdBvGoAUMRPvBgc7oTw2E/s320/martha.jpg" border="0" alt="Martha caregiver" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704609754910568146" /></a>Shortly after retirement, Nina began to have health issues. Martha and Doreen cared for her after two hip replacement surgeries. The focus of their lives became hospital and rehab care, physical therapy and doctor appointments. Although the family hoped Nina would rebound, her health deteriorated rapidly. During a three-month period, Nina suffered three major strokes and underwent two emergency cardiovascular surgeries, requiring lengthy stays in rehab.</div><div><br />“Mom was discharged from rehab when she reached the Medicare 91-day yearly limit. When she first arrived home, she was able to transfer from her bed to a wheelchair. But, with continuous TIA’s and lack of rehab, she regressed and quickly became bedridden,” explained Martha. “We were determined to <a href="http://hpbc.com/about/">care for her at home</a>, but she was in such a weakened state we didn’t know how we were going to manage. We really needed help.”</div><div><br />Martha decided to <a href="http://hpbc.com/contact/">call Hospice of Palm Beach County</a> to get advice. “What did I have to lose? I figured I’d make the call, explain the situation and ask if Hospice could do anything to help or guide me. I didn’t know if Mom <a href="http://hpbc.com/healthcare-partners/">met the criteria for hospice care</a>, but I knew Hospice would have more answers than we did,” Martha added.</div><div><br />When the <a href="http://hpbc.com/healthcare-partners/how-to-refer.shtml">hospice doctor and admissions nurse came to the house to assess</a> Nina’s condition, Martha was grateful for the respect they showed her mother. The physician spoke to Nina directly, in her native Spanish. He took the time to develop a personal connection with her.</div><div><br />After the assessment, the physician and nurse sat down with the family to educate them on Nina’s condition. Together, they <a href="http://hpbc.com/patients-families/">developed goals for her care</a> based on what they wanted, which was to have time together and enjoy life.</div><div><br />Just one hour after the visit, they had everything they needed to take care of Nina. All of the equipment, supplies and medications related to hospice care were delivered, including a lift that made it possible for Martha and Doreen to easily get Nina out of bed and into a wheelchair.</div><div><br />“It is hard to express the sense of relief that Hospice provided,” Martha continued. “What had been overwhelming was now manageable. With the burden lifted, we had the support to take care of Mom the way we wanted to. If we had a question or concern, <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/admissions.shtml">we could call 24 hours a day</a>. Knowing that we were always able to reach someone was very comforting. We knew that we didn’t have to handle everything all by ourselves; we weren’t alone.”</div><div><br />Hospice of Palm Beach County gave Martha and her family a quality of life they didn’t expect when she first picked up the phone to make the call. “We were given the gift of time with Mom that we didn’t think we could have. Hospice gave us the chance to celebrate life with her - Mother’s Day, family parties and birthdays,”explained Martha.</div><div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjk9P5kmqBMJlmOJ2ZvB5GhkKf6jTnuGweXENN37X8S0GSzT73s8Oxw5O74AR3Ff64OuJB31YvkB-yqLkVACm5sfCYwvB2tqhFn_bE9SI2HhSzmxpeFg6zKt5BYKsxnH_ZGtRLbDkr-Dc/s1600/nina.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 148px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjk9P5kmqBMJlmOJ2ZvB5GhkKf6jTnuGweXENN37X8S0GSzT73s8Oxw5O74AR3Ff64OuJB31YvkB-yqLkVACm5sfCYwvB2tqhFn_bE9SI2HhSzmxpeFg6zKt5BYKsxnH_ZGtRLbDkr-Dc/s320/nina.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704611808375737426" /></a> “Since I was a little girl, my mother jokingly asked me ‘Mamita, why did you come into this world?’My answer was‘To take care of you, Mom’. Martha concluded,“With the loving care of Hospice of Palm Beach County, we were able to care for her the way we hoped to and treat her like a queen. She had taken such wonderful care of us. She deserved it.”</div>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-31638314020533882992012-01-18T13:44:00.007-05:002012-01-18T14:36:03.944-05:00Helping Families Care for their Loved Ones<span style="font-weight:bold;"><i>How our family can help your family</i></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnGVe4hDo5_zboCw9g13Ag0j7-qOb5pr7BZP1zWUuVT3yi-ZYSfjeufxUfhPtYNLJrSrQvH3fNNzKCvqPR2b9LrRrxNzENn4kqTso1C8ZtId1rtFBX2n93GHuaPIF0-O8ngSk6aWNiDt4/s1600/NTF-Winter-2012-1.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 167px; height: 139px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnGVe4hDo5_zboCw9g13Ag0j7-qOb5pr7BZP1zWUuVT3yi-ZYSfjeufxUfhPtYNLJrSrQvH3fNNzKCvqPR2b9LrRrxNzENn4kqTso1C8ZtId1rtFBX2n93GHuaPIF0-O8ngSk6aWNiDt4/s320/NTF-Winter-2012-1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5699057727246467282" /></a><br /><br />When loved ones are nearing end of life, families do everything they can to care for them. They want to provide the best possible care, but may not be sure what that is. They often feel unprepared and overwhelmed as they try to make the “right” decisions and meet their loved ones’ changing needs. <div>Instead of struggling to do all of this on their own, families can reach for the support available from <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/">Hospice of Palm Beach County</a>. </div><div><br /></div><div>We can help relieve the stress of the unknown. We’re here to <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/patients-families/">hold your hand</a> and walk with you on the journey that lies ahead, offering guidance and education so you can make the best decisions for your loved one’s care. </div><div><br /></div><div>With our support, you and your loved one can relax, knowing that you are receiving the best possible care. <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/about/hospice-team.shtml">Our physicians, nurses and certified nursing assistants are experts in end-of-life care</a> and we’re here to help you 24/7. Whenever you have questions or concerns, our nursing staff is on call for reassurance, a telephone consultation or a home visit. We can <a href="http://hpbc.com/services/levels_of_care.shtml">respond to any need</a> around the clock, delivering medications, medical equipment and supplies to your loved one’s home. </div><div><br /></div><div>Our compassionate care is designed to meet each family’s specific needs. We <a href="http://hpbc.com/about/units-offices.shtml">care for our patients wherever they live</a>, whether that is in the family home, residential facility, nursing home or hospice inpatient care center. Honoring all cultural and religious traditions, we offer emotional and <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/services/spiritual-care.shtml">spiritual support</a> for the entire family. </div><div><br /></div><div>We’re also here to provide you with caregiver support. When you need a break, our <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/volunteer/index.shtml">specially-trained volunteers</a> visit with your loved one or help with errands. If you need to go out of town for a few days, you can rest assured that he or she will receive excellent respite care in one of our inpatient care centers. </div><div><br /></div><div>There are so many ways that <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/healthcare-partners/index.shtml">our family can help your family</a>. You are not alone. All you have to do is call 561.227.5140. Our Admissions Coordinators are available 24/7 to answer your questions and help you determine whether <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/">hospice care</a> is right for you. The sooner you call, the longer you and your loved one can benefit from our care.</div>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-88118025443143255882011-06-09T13:37:00.016-04:002011-11-09T15:39:08.019-05:00Do you know ways to give?<p style="color: #41abd0"><strong><i>We all know what to do to help patients and families in our care, but we might not know how to let them help us. In this issue of The Heart of Hospice, you will learn of the ways families can give back in support of our programs and services to help others in their time of need. Take a moment to learn more about these opportunities and to share them the next time you are asked by a family member, "What can we do to show our gratitude?"</i></strong></p><p style="color: #41abd0"><strong><i><br /></i></strong></p><p>Our <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#296791;"><a href="http://www.hpbc.com/volunteer" target="_blank">volunteer program</a></span></b> has many options for those with time to donate their time to Hospice of Palm Beach County. Volunteers can perform duties that fit both their schedules and desires, such as administrative work, visiting patients or assisting with our many special events, for example. We also have a program for Professional Volunteers in fields such as Accounting, Massage Therapy, Nursing and more, so that volunteers can use their professional skills to assist our patients and families.</p><p><br /></p><p>Another way to give back is through our Resale Program. <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#296791;"><a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/resale" target="_blank">Hospice of Palm Beach County Resale Operation</a></span></b> not only looks for volunteers to assist in the Shops, but also for donations of gently used clothing, housewares and accessories to be sold in the shops. This is a fun and rewarding option for those interested in supporting the diverse programs and services Hospice of Palm Beach County offers to patients and families. If a family has a vehicle, boat, RV or other form of transportation they are interested in donating, we can speak with them about our <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#296791;"><a href="http://www.hospicecars.org/" target="_blank">Hospice Cars</a></span> </b>program.</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI-82leLn8KRsIuIDajIbJeq_Y5SDbDrNqN6uU5adGRlJIdaabhV2ePcxBEO0_KcA_ZnblgIMev5T-038kSrt3Yz322-cHinJlawVnlqdNmho8dx2YoboYRRHI9GP1TObPWOVHBQhZVA4/s1600/bricks.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 187px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI-82leLn8KRsIuIDajIbJeq_Y5SDbDrNqN6uU5adGRlJIdaabhV2ePcxBEO0_KcA_ZnblgIMev5T-038kSrt3Yz322-cHinJlawVnlqdNmho8dx2YoboYRRHI9GP1TObPWOVHBQhZVA4/s320/bricks.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5673084139004942882" /></a><br /></p><p>For those interested in making a monetary gift, there are a variety of options.</p><p><br /></p><p><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#296791;"><a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/page.aspx?pid=383#.TrrSEmCkbCk" target="_blank">Memorial gifts</a></span></b> are the most common gifts. Families may request that friends and colleagues make donations in memory of their loved one in lieu of flowers and often include this in the obituary.</p><p><br /></p><p>If a friend or family wants to memorialize their loved one in a more visible way, we have <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#296791;"><a href="http://www.hpbcf.org/page.aspx?pid=383#.TrrSSWCkbCk" target="_blank">naming opportunities</a></span></b>.</p><p></p><br /><p>• Bricks in the Helen L. Messic Meadow, located at the Gerstenberg Center, are a relatively affordable option. For a one time gift of $250 or $500 (depending on the size of the brick) the brick is etched with the loved one’s name and placed on the walkway.</p><br /><p>• For a one time gift of $5,000, a bench is placed in the Helen L. Messic meadow with a plaque placed on the seat back of the bench.</p><br /><p>• For a cumulative gifts totaling $5,000, a plaque can be placed by a tree in the Helen L. Messic Meadow.</p><br /><p>• For cumulative gifts totaling $10,000 and $20,000, a plaque can be placed on the tree of life located in the atrium.</p><br /><p>• For larger gifts that can be pledged over 5 years, there are naming opportunities for rooms, program areas and facilities throughout the Gerstenberg Center and our <b><a href="http://hpbc.com/about/units-offices.shtml" target="_blank">five (5) inpatient units</a></b>.</p><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzyDqzHEL7KXzHWvvZe0I_kNuprbGdZ4souL2pqvPMLbV0AarQwAdJ5CXZL0paFfhvmYrd2y3dyJldQhpIrUfyUYU9Bg-6Q7uSAOY_0AuYa8LKFbWqe6XJh1c6OMCc9gJyiwOK2DKLcU0/s1600/stained-glass.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 201px; height: 242px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzyDqzHEL7KXzHWvvZe0I_kNuprbGdZ4souL2pqvPMLbV0AarQwAdJ5CXZL0paFfhvmYrd2y3dyJldQhpIrUfyUYU9Bg-6Q7uSAOY_0AuYa8LKFbWqe6XJh1c6OMCc9gJyiwOK2DKLcU0/s320/stained-glass.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5673091901087564834" /></a><br /><p>• For a one time gift of $1,000, you can add your loved one’s name to the beautiful stained glass artwork located at each of our five inpatient units: Jay Robert Lauer Hospice and Palliative Care Unit which also offers a beautiful recognition wall; Bethesda Memorial Hospice and Palliative Care Unit; Hospice and Palliative Care Unit at Good Samaritan Medical Center; Hospice and Palliative Care Unit at the Palm Beach Gardens Medical Center; and the Hospice and Palliative Care Unit at Delray Medical Center.</p><br /><br /><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhL78DB8_Ft6s34Efubn-dnXJ6lreApxoC-tcH2Xe1Hj1dKOc7MFHJH7ad7B7qqiD3HU-c_Vc-KhvTzDjswVoFcaVF2O3LvHkXnk9lh1_1n5ZKBqxJk8US7-EZJOvL7FCJ2uN1P8PDlS5o/s1600/donor-wall.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 140px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhL78DB8_Ft6s34Efubn-dnXJ6lreApxoC-tcH2Xe1Hj1dKOc7MFHJH7ad7B7qqiD3HU-c_Vc-KhvTzDjswVoFcaVF2O3LvHkXnk9lh1_1n5ZKBqxJk8US7-EZJOvL7FCJ2uN1P8PDlS5o/s320/donor-wall.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5673089304216880642" /></a></p><p></p><p>Patients and families often say they wish they could do more. We can help friends of Hospice of Palm Beach County to do more through <span style="color:#296791;"><b><a href="http://www.gftpln.org/Home.do?orgId=5906#.TrrSZ2CkbCk" target="_blank">gift planning</a></b></span>. Gift planning (planned gifts) combines financial planning, estate planning and tax planning techniques so that supporters can make significant gifts, often with dramatic tax and financial rewards.</p><p><br /></p><p>Naming Hospice of Palm Beach County in your will is one of the easiest ways to support the organization and does not affect your current income. Hospice of Palm Beach County can be named as a beneficiary of a life insurance policy or retirement plan (IRA). </p><p><br /></p><p>The Foundation staff is knowledgeable and available to help you with gift giving plans. We encourage individuals to seek an attorney or financial professional’s advice when planning their gift.</p><br /><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9MagYVpeq4AEl8Z071oeh-fWE_bTScl9UZDJWS6VL7_w7oi1mIQUyatSk0Ydpq-nUMXc_33h6huEtXkgJRumDKmp4bL0LcLxC85fsrSl3uDyExpzP7GS0B5E8wqCwqRjm0UuTeg8zHxY/s1600/meeting.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 229px; height: 153px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9MagYVpeq4AEl8Z071oeh-fWE_bTScl9UZDJWS6VL7_w7oi1mIQUyatSk0Ydpq-nUMXc_33h6huEtXkgJRumDKmp4bL0LcLxC85fsrSl3uDyExpzP7GS0B5E8wqCwqRjm0UuTeg8zHxY/s320/meeting.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5673090098942739666" /></a></p><br /><p>Lastly, a way for businesses to support Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation is the new <span style="color:#296791;"><b><a href="http://63.128.2.222/page.aspx?pid=387#.TrrSlmCkbCk" target="_blank">Corporate Partnership Program</a></b></span>. By becoming a member of this program, Corporate Partners receive many benefits, which may include: </p><br /><p>• Recognition on Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation's donor wall</p><br /><p>• Recognition as a member of the Corporate Partnership Program in <i><a href="http://hpbc.com/media-room/index.shtml" target="_blank">News To Friends</a></i>, our newsletter that is published three times a year</p><br /><p>• Logo included on Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation’s website</p><br /><p>• Recognition on all Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation e-blasts</p><br /><p>• A framed Corporate Partnership Certificate</p><p><br /></p><p>To learn more about the ways to support Hospice of Palm Beach County through gifts, please visit our Foundation offices or call 561.484.6881. To learn more about our volunteer program, please call 561.227.5138.</p>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-31182146991388027142011-05-25T11:39:00.007-04:002011-05-25T11:46:09.058-04:00Fritz Estime, Chaplain - Honoring your culture at a significant time<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwFhSTv9GvPpM0Yrcq_m-9vjVvpigjuL56c128Mz3MxLmd0luaeMVsp_LQnPULmklVtaMwSfFdAAXykMjb-TQPhYIPF7V6AK-UP0wMzpSLqB1o166At6O23NccK81ZhuBodmNX_fqcanY/s1600/fritz.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 137px; height: 148px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwFhSTv9GvPpM0Yrcq_m-9vjVvpigjuL56c128Mz3MxLmd0luaeMVsp_LQnPULmklVtaMwSfFdAAXykMjb-TQPhYIPF7V6AK-UP0wMzpSLqB1o166At6O23NccK81ZhuBodmNX_fqcanY/s320/fritz.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5610679341163517090" /></a><p>Fritz, who speaks fluent Creole, was called to work with a Haitian family because there were language and culture barriers. The family was having difficulty fully grasping what was happening to their loved one. Fritz explained to them, in their language, that the patient was very sick and only had a short time to live. He helped them process the situation and gave them insight so they could appreciate the magnitude of the circumstances. The family was scared and confused but Fritz reassured and supported them. He encouraged the family to enjoy the brief time that they had with the patient and integrated their <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/services/spiritual-care.shtml">cultural and religious practices</a> to make them feel more at ease. Fritz brought a piece of their country, traditions, lifestyle and norms so they could be at peace. The family was grateful for the time they had spent with their loved one thanks to Fritz’s expertise and compassion.</p>Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-60645061015739845142011-05-09T11:22:00.003-04:002011-05-09T11:26:06.537-04:00Cheryl Dely, Bereavement Counselor - You’re not alone in your time of need<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtyYW7S8Mkomg9fDrjn_vROVaFgsjvoZGoWQWw6WixnGb8pbekQYAo_ZgJZHiuUds1Bl3IQGnrKYUyyemMK4UynSGE-TiKWHIRNiSEMVe5oyPMZiQX-klgh0hQQICftPwX-L9dQpK9m_8/s1600/cheryl-dely.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 142px; height: 154px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtyYW7S8Mkomg9fDrjn_vROVaFgsjvoZGoWQWw6WixnGb8pbekQYAo_ZgJZHiuUds1Bl3IQGnrKYUyyemMK4UynSGE-TiKWHIRNiSEMVe5oyPMZiQX-klgh0hQQICftPwX-L9dQpK9m_8/s320/cheryl-dely.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5604738006473694882" /></a>Cheryl was caring for an elderly woman who had just lost her husband. The woman was very distraught. For the time following the passing of her husband, she had friends, neighbors and Cheryl to help her cope. On one particular night, the woman was having a difficult time. Her neighbor stayed by her side for a while but had to leave. Cheryl was concerned that the woman would wake during the night or in the morning and become confused; it would be the first time that she would wake up alone. So Cheryl spent the night on a couch just outside the bedroom door to ensure the wellbeing of the woman. When the patient woke, Cheryl comforted her. She stayed throughout the day to help with plans, comfort her as needed and ultimately be a shoulder to cry on.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-56018167056243116792011-03-23T11:12:00.001-04:002011-03-23T11:14:41.626-04:00Jana Shiffert, Social Worker - You are a part of our family<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcBlmcflZ0PdcUbIjh-gmy0vDQbtoRTafrtS_ldW7zQXwKNsc9Yxjgp3MltpnOXvn31iUrBGvc1bjhmNhwHOwLe8eCtjoSTXJzpp8NeY7qY3FC5ZbicLPQgz4BYmqdn5UiFiAxendyssg/s1600/jana-schiffert.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 135px; height: 148px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcBlmcflZ0PdcUbIjh-gmy0vDQbtoRTafrtS_ldW7zQXwKNsc9Yxjgp3MltpnOXvn31iUrBGvc1bjhmNhwHOwLe8eCtjoSTXJzpp8NeY7qY3FC5ZbicLPQgz4BYmqdn5UiFiAxendyssg/s320/jana-schiffert.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587293945411958306" /></a>Jana noticed that a patient she was caring for was showing symptoms that could become harmful to her if she stayed alone in her home for much longer. The patient, unwilling to move to an inpatient care center, confided to Jana that she was scared and nervous about leaving her home. Jana consoled her and reassured her that everything was going to be okay. She explained to her that the move would be better for her and that once she got better she could return home. The patient trusted Jana and finally agreed to be admitted. Jana then alerted the patient’s doctors and arranged for transport. While they waited, Jana helped the woman clean her house, and herself, so she would be more comfortable. Jana did for the patient what a family member would do. She did the dishes in the sink, helped dress the patient and acted as her “legs” because the woman was having a hard time walking. All the while Jana eased the woman’s nerves and made her feel relaxed. When the transport picked the patient up Jana locked up the house so it would be secure and ready for the patient when she arrived back home.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-3967343435688435602011-03-16T09:15:00.004-04:002011-03-16T09:18:22.506-04:00Marvis Morris – CNA, Help for everyone in need<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqkfojKdntMoPaBCAEatF3tKhSXw-Pl0EWHM2E64hN6L06B60l7sBp0F1XrNN3gAdbaXf2HdVKWLkqt99i3Z0Wzye9D-Y0rJzVjABvnXWl5znxKHBxgIk88VrzY6uPZI4tsQFTU1GRQW8/s1600/marvis-morris.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 137px; height: 149px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqkfojKdntMoPaBCAEatF3tKhSXw-Pl0EWHM2E64hN6L06B60l7sBp0F1XrNN3gAdbaXf2HdVKWLkqt99i3Z0Wzye9D-Y0rJzVjABvnXWl5znxKHBxgIk88VrzY6uPZI4tsQFTU1GRQW8/s320/marvis-morris.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5584666033901913522" /></a>Marvis Morris, <a href="http://www.hpbc.com/about/hospice-team.shtml">CNA on our Gold team</a>, was sitting in her car preparing to enter a facility in which patients of hers resided when she witnessed an elderly woman in an automobile accident that landed her vehicle in a retention pond. Seeing that the woman was trapped, Marvis – without hesitation - jumped in the water and pulled the woman out. Her quick thinking and actions saved the elderly woman’s life.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-24686330646306838562011-02-25T11:40:00.000-05:002011-02-25T11:42:07.157-05:00Carol Stoltz, RN – 21 years of service to the Western Communities - Service wherever you reside<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYY0Pfo7VqvlCDWZwR1KPRCV_BELCrvAkUAW0sPcWXyGm3SgAwGcQEe4Cp6SnFHlbr5egmkXNB-FoY4kNYVPQstWar2Ooxrg7jj0k1gqmxcNs5TxU9tTbJFjQpQAM9LoYODF6U6WAv9_0/s1600/carol-stoltz.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 135px; height: 153px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYY0Pfo7VqvlCDWZwR1KPRCV_BELCrvAkUAW0sPcWXyGm3SgAwGcQEe4Cp6SnFHlbr5egmkXNB-FoY4kNYVPQstWar2Ooxrg7jj0k1gqmxcNs5TxU9tTbJFjQpQAM9LoYODF6U6WAv9_0/s320/carol-stoltz.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5577668079923730658" /></a> Carol Stoltz, also known as “Carol of the Glades” has taken care of generations of families in the western communities of Palm Beach County. When taking a walk with Carol through the hospital parking lot people call to her fondly. They are family members of former patients -- daughters and sons, cousins and grandchildren -- and they are also family members of patients Carol is caring for now. They hug her, shake her hand and give blessings that Carol is there for them. No matter how difficult the situation, Carol can be counted on to persevere, to give everything she has to the patient and family. This is a poor area and Carol shows no judgment, she rolls up her sleeves and gets to work helping the family and patient with their daily tasks. There is nothing Carol wouldn’t do for the people of the western communities, and they show their love for her every time she visits.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6022489343514639981.post-27457282707266476882011-02-09T08:51:00.004-05:002011-02-09T08:54:13.305-05:00Sewing Shop Fundraiser<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXyH_nOoK66AaOtrTFoWSvpUkGtAYD2nXrb0wl1A0SfZ_fF3qtK_znxgb6nyFfTaFvnR3gFiHV-X7Iq63ggcet9pYx6boi4H_aH1tDe-n85xrbH2RbyfA46V_NvMXRKB0AL99nPQsQjis/s1600/David-Laura_454sm.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXyH_nOoK66AaOtrTFoWSvpUkGtAYD2nXrb0wl1A0SfZ_fF3qtK_znxgb6nyFfTaFvnR3gFiHV-X7Iq63ggcet9pYx6boi4H_aH1tDe-n85xrbH2RbyfA46V_NvMXRKB0AL99nPQsQjis/s320/David-Laura_454sm.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5571687066140915922" /></a>Each year, Laura and Dave Jordan host a fundraiser at their sewing and vacuum repair shop in North Palm Beach. The benefiting charity changes each year and in 2010, <a href="http://www.hpbcf.org">Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation</a> was the lucky recipient. The couple asked their customers to help them in making a donation to Hospice of Palm Beach County Foundation by donating one dollar into a jar at the shop. They were amazed at the outpouring of support! While they had only requested a one-dollar donation, some customers donated more than one hundred dollars! When they arrived to deliver the gift, they were thrilled to donate more than $1,350 - which is more than they had ever raised before! Both Laura and Dave have personal experiences with <a href="http://www.hpbc.com">Hospice</a> and were happy that the proceeds of their fundraiser would go to a charity near and dear to their hearts.Hospice of Palm Beach Countyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18237793606786871657noreply@blogger.com0